Get Involved – It's Worth It!

9 Ways to Build a Strong Relationship with Your Child's School

By Raymond J. and Eileen Huntington

Did you know that when parents are involved with schools, their children do better in many subjects? Building a strong parent/school relationship means parents and schools communicate actively with each other. By getting involved, you show your child that you value school and education, and you increase your child's chances for success.

Schools vary a great deal in how they communicate with, work with and welcome parents. Even so, there are things parents can do to foster a relationship.

When school opens (or any other time your child gets a new teacher), go into school and introduce yourself or call or write a note. Make an appointment to meet the teacher and talk about your child. Describe your child's particular strengths and interests or areas where your child may need extra help. Teachers appreciate families who take the time and make the effort to get acquainted. For example: Can I visit a class? What is your approach to (a particular subject)? Will my child be placed in a particular ability group? If so, how are the placement decisions made? What "hands-on" materials do you use? What if my child is having problems? Are there things I can do at home to help my child with schoolwork?

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